Flirting is definitely an art, and it’s not one that everyone comes by easily. For those who are a little more on the awkward side or who are not quite as articulate as they’d like to be, flirting can be very challenging and stressful. For those in need of a little extra guidance, there are certain moves and interactions that help make flirting easier. With a few tips and tricks of the trade, you can flirt with confidence and get those women to respond to you in positive ways.
Eye Contact
One of the best and simplest ways to flirt with women is to maintain eye contact. Not creepy staring eye contact, but just to let that eye contact linger a little after the natural point of looking away definitely communicates that you are interested in her. If she returns that eye contact with staring back into your eyes, you are definitely on the right track. If she blushes, smiles and looks away, your efforts are definitely moving things in the right direction. Eye contact expresses not the only attraction, but also that you are genuinely interested in a person and are focused on them, and that never hurts the flirting attempts with anyone.
Touching
Touching subtly and in tender and gentle ways is one of the best ways to flirt. A soft hug, a gentle arm around the shoulder, brushing hair out of her eyes, letting the hands brush against each other when you are passing something are all great flirting moves. If there is chemistry there, she will enjoy these touches and want more. Starting out small only kindles those fires of passion so they are hot when they need to be.
Flattery Will Get You Everywhere
Every woman enjoy a good compliment. The more personal you can make them and less cheesy and generic, the better. Women can see through assembly-line compliments that men use on a woman after woman. To be successful and make an impression, compliment something that is specific to them or something important to them. The more personal it is, the better, and the better it will make her feel, and the farther it will get you in your flirting.
From clothes to looks, skills and intelligence, nothing is off the table when it comes to flattery as long as it comes from a genuine and sincere place. If you don’t feel natural giving women compliments, it might be best to wait until you are comfortable with her enough to try it out. If you come off super nervous or awkward, the flattery isn’t as appealing or effective.
When it comes to flirting with women, just think of how to genuinely express what you are feeling and your interest in a particular person. Your flirting shouldn’t be the same for every woman you meet; you should customize your moves and compliments so that they are personal and genuine. Cheesy pick-up lines might get you one thing, but when it comes to love, relationships, and actual solid connections, developing some solid flirting strategies will serve you well.