When it comes to how to get a girl to like you, there are a lot of different tricks of the trade. Getting a girl to like you is nice and easy if you have that charismatic personality and good looks that so many girls go for, but if you’re one of those quiet, awkward, shy guys, this can be more of a challenge. It’s hard when you’re shy or instantly get nervous around girls to even know what to say, let alone get them to like you. Following are a number of tips to think about when it comes time to try and get a special girl to like you in that special way.
Talk to them
The first step to getting a girl to like you are talking to them. This seems like common sense, but it can be challenging to some. Talking to a girl you like is the first step to getting her to like you. Don’t just talk but do at least as much listening to her as you are talking. One of the best ways to get to know someone better, and it seems to be a dying art, is to ask questions. Questions are the best way to let someone know you are interested in who they are and getting to know them better. If you’ve ever spent time with someone who just talks and talks but asks nothing about you, you know how unappealing that is. If you want a girl to like you, ask her questions and talk to her to get to know her as well as possible.
Express an Interest in Her Interests
Another great show of respect and interest is to express a genuine interest in what the girl likes. If she has a hobby she’s really passionate about, ask her about it. Even better, if there is an event coming that you know is up to her alley, surprise her with tickets. This not only shows that you can be romantic and spontaneous, but it also shows that you are interested in her enough to remember the things she has told you and what she likes. Expressing an interest in her likes and hobbies will only open her up more and make her more comfortable talking to you. If there’s one thing a girl loves, it’s feeling comfortable around a guy, comfortable enough to be herself and share who she is.
Now that you’ve gotten to know her and been clear about your interest in her, it’s time to pull out the big guns: be romantic. Flowers are a classic choice. Hopefully, you’ve been able to get a little intel beforehand to find out which are her favorites to score extra points.
Gifts are always nice, and they don’t have to be expensive. A letter, sending her a song that reminds you of her, or picking up her favorite snack will go a long way. This says to her that a relationship with you will be filled with romantic gestures, and truthfully, that’s what most women want and respond to. They don’t have to be grand, just the stuff of daily life, small things.
Be Clear About Your Feelings
Women love to be with a guy who is clear about their feelings. Having to guess all the time is exhausting and will only last so long. Just put it all out there. Lots of advice is about playing games, holding back, not appearing too interested, but if you really like a girl and want her to like you back, be clear about how you feel, and hopefully, she will return that same courtesy to you. Life is too short for all the games people play, especially when it comes to love and romance. Happiness will be much more simple if you clearly tell the girl you like that you are interested in her and why. Make sure you’ve put in the time first to get to know her and show her that you like how she is, but once that foundation is laid, just tell her. Most women appreciate the straightforwardness, and the bottom line is if they are right for you and like you back, expressing feelings is a good thing.